DEEPER
Intimacy Retreat
A 8 DAY deep dive into the exquisite realms of Alchemical Intimacy, Desire, Consent, Boundaries & New Earth Masculine and Feminine Leadership.
Join Lillian Love and Joshua Hathaway for a week-long deep dive into the exquisite realms of Alchemical Intimacy, exploring the themes of Desire, Consent, Boundaries and New Earth Masculine and Feminine Leadership.
As the old walls of Patriarchy crumble, both within our own cells and in our outer institutions, a new world is emerging through us.
As much as the Goddess movement T-Shirt slogans may imply, the future is not only Female:
Our future is Integrated.
The Hero’s and the Heroine’s journey is coming full circle and in the end, the innate wisdom of the Feminine and the original Heart of the Masculine is being restored, remembered and reborn within all beings and our great Earth.
Through this 7 day initiation; we will weave through the worlds of polarity, through the shadow aspects of our human evolution and emerge with the gifts more intact and refined; finally returning home to the core essence that is within all – our Wholeness, beyond Masculine or Feminine – we reunite and embody our Innocence.
Immersed in the wild beauty of the Big Island Hawai’i, we will awaken our bodies with Tantric ritual, Archetypal embodiment exploration, Reconciliation ceremonies and New Earth DNA activations.
There will be space and time to integrate and be held in nature as we visit the healing waters and firey volcanoes of Pele.
This DEEPER RETREAT is not for the beginner. This is a deeper Initiation into the more subtle layers that are ready to be refined individually and collectively.
The ceremonies we will co-create together will be nothing less than miraculous as we vulnerably and courageously enter the current of Divine Frequency, allowing the Great I AM to guide our prayers and transmit healing for humanity through our collective voice and dance.
Every day we are listening deeper, dreaming more courageously, and speaking our truth more honestly and compassionately.
Every day we discover a more authentic relationship with our own YES and NO in the dialectical dance of Desire, Consent, and Boundaries.
We play together in the open field beyond right and wrong.
What You Receive…
7 Nights accomodation at New Earth Mandala ~ Sundari Gardens Retreat center, Big Island Hawai’i (various private room/ shared dorm & camping options to choose from)
7 Days of deep dive Alchemical Intimacy transmissions, teachings and tools for New Earth Relationship
An exquisitely safe container for your nervous system to surrender into Sensual Tantric Ritual & Healing Somatic Ceremony experiences, opening you (& your beloved) to new realms of trust, pleasure and love
Weaving between Co-Ed Rituals and Men’s and Women’s Circles
Ecstatic Dance and deeply ConSensual Embodiment Spaces
Optional Plant Medicine Ceremony
Space and time to just be held in Mother Nature ~ natural lava heated hot pools, cooling ocean dips, waterfalls and fiery volcano fissures
7 days & nights of delicious organic vegetarian & vegan Breakfast, Lunch & Dinner
An “Alchemical Intimacy” vision board, crafted by you (& your beloved) to magnify the New Earth Love on your Altar at home
A take home copy of Joshua & Lillie’s “Ritual of Reconciliation” & “Ritual of Re-Commiment” template for continued deepening
A digital Guide to “Rituals of Adoration”
A major upgrade in your energy field that radiates healthy relationship, clear boundaries, orgasmic delight and Heaven on Earth Intimacy
An embodied Remembrance within your cells ~ of New Earth Intimacy, effortlessly rippling out as the Frequency of Love for you, your loved one/s and Humanity
The language and syntax of sovereign interdependence is the same and we will keep emerging an even more beautiful dream together of what is possible.
Come play!
Investment (into You, Your Relationship, Your Ancestors & Your Descendants):
Single Private Suite (own bathroom): $3333
Couple: $5777
Single Private Suite (shared Bathroom): $2888
Couple: $4999
Single shared Dorm: $1999
Couple: $3444
Single Camping (BYO camp gear): $1777
Couple: $2999
***Limited Private Suites Available ~ First come first serve!***
To reserve your spot send $1000 deposit to:
PP: ordinaryawakening@gmail.com (choose friends & fam)
Venmo: @NoBSNinja
DATES:
February 10-18th 2022
Watch a 2 Minute Video of Sundari HEREQ
Lillian Love
is a Feminine Empowerment Coach, Writer, Speaker and Leader. She is the creator of Cosmic Touch, a docu-therapy film transmission exploring the transformational healing power of self-pleasure. Having deeply immersed herself in training in the red lineage of Sri Vidya Tantra, Somatic Sensual Healing, Inner Aspecting Method, Breathwork and Inner Child Healing, Lillian has a gift for Somatic cellular healing. She guides people–on an individual and collective level–to get out of their heads, and into their bodies, where their peace, pleasure, power, purpose and prosperity lives.
Joshua Hathaway
has a Masters Degree in Transpersonal and Somatic Psychotherapy, post-graduate studies of Philosophy and Psychology and 15 years of guiding Rites of Passage work for youth in the wilderness. He also has a deep engagement with language and its impact on our experience and choices, most notably in his study and teaching of nonviolent communication since 2005. Joshua has 20 years experience working with men and 10 years leading intensive co-ed circles and retreats. His greatest accomplishment is raising a 19 year old son who he not only loves but truly admires.
Do you want to know the single error that almost cost us the greatest love either of us has ever known?
The mistake that we regret the most?
The one thing that we did that almost destroyed our relationship?
We tried to do it alone.
We didn’t get the support we needed until it was (almost) too late.
We are both coaches and we still made this mistake!
We all have unconscious cultural and familial programs running that envelop us in a sense of separation. We have shame admitting that we need support, specially in the realms of relationship and romantic intimacy.
The truth is, we were never meant to do this alone!
We humans thrive in community. Our relationships are healthiest when embedded in a network of authentic connections. But we’re programmed to feel alone in our struggles when it is our struggles that are so universal! We habitually hide the difficulties and put on a good face with friends. We habitually blame our partner for not meeting our needs and give away our power in the relationship by taking the position of the victim. We demand more of what we want and collapse when our strategies fail to produce the results we truly desire.
How to know if DEEPER is for you:
You are here to co-create the New Earth; whether “Single” or in “Partnership”
You are single and yearn for Deeper connection, Intimacy and are ready to uplevel your inner Attraction antenna to high level Partnership
You are in a Romantic Relationship (monogamous, poly or other) and desire deeper connection, intimacy, communication, and next level Orgasmic Frequencies
You know your Partnership (current or future) is a Blueprint for New Earth Leadership (Heaven on Earth Co-Creation) & you’re ready to activate it now
You are a Woman, ready to heal and forgive Men, and become their greatest ally
You are a Man, ready to heal and forgive Women, and become their greatest ally
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the DEEPER Dojo just some kind of Poly swingers club?
Haha! No. While we celebrate ALL people and the many different flavors of relationship pods that are out there, at its core, the DEEPER Community is a place to connect and grow in emotional intelligence, practice exquisite No BS communication skills, and cultivate a sense of belonging and safely exploring our most intimate desires.
What if I am single, can I still join without a partner?
Yes you can! The Deeper Dojo is a space where you can come alone and get connected with other humans. Even if you are not looking for a romantic relationship right now, it is a safe space to get your need for connection, belonging, being seen and uplifted met. And who knows? You might just meet someone who is as committed as you are to true intimacy!
What if my partner won’t do it with me?
This is a question we get often. First, I want to take a breath with this very common grief.
And the truth is that your relationship is a dance that BOTH of you are playing along with in your own ways. (Likely a co-dependent one.)
When you start doing different steps, there is no way that the old dance will survive. And the more beautiful a dance YOU do, the more likely an aligned partner will become curious and engaged with you.
You can show up with yourself and grow in skills to share with your partner even if they are not yet joining with you in the Dojo.
What will I actually be doing in the live virtual Dojo sessions?
The live zoom Dojo space will include some teachings and some inquiry, somatic and partner practices. So you will be listening, journaling, dancing, sharing, and practicing the things we are exploring with actual people! There will be breakout rooms that you will get to have real life moments of one on one connection with others in the Dojo.
When are the live Dojo sessions?
Every 1st and 3rd Tuesday of the month at 5-7pm Pacific time. Please find your time zone here.
What if I can’t make the sessions live?
You will receive the recordings from each gathering to mine the gold in your own time. We will be inviting everyone to have a Deeper Buddy to pair up with (or have a few like dolphins!) so you can still do the practical partner exercises even when you are not live with us.
The Facebook group is also a great place to stay connected with the community when you are not on the live calls.
Do you offer refunds?
We do not, but you can cancel your monthly membership anytime.
This is an ongoing monthly membership based community. There is a very reasonable one time opt in amount that gives you the SHI(F)T Happens Training for FREE + three months of membership to the Dojo.
Do you offer scholarships?
After experimenting with a pure Gift Economy at the outset. What we found is that people who are not investing much money are also less likely to invest time. So we have chosen to move forward asking for a very reasonable initial investment in the DEEPER Dojo that we see inspires people to show up.
If you are in sincere financial hardship and you are truly excited to join this community and practice with us, then you can send an email to Connect@MasterYourBullshit.com to request further information.
A note on Diversity
BBIPOC, and LGBTQIA+ identified folks are welcome and celebrated in the DEEPER Community. While we (Lillian and Joshua) are two white folks who speak from a mostly hertrosexual lens, we hold a high value for inclusivity, diversity and are always learning and open to your feedback to make it a safer place for all.
Your voice matters!