DEEPER

A Dojo of Alchemical Intimacy


We gather to learn, practice, and play in the realm of awakening through intimacy. With ourselves. With others. And with the Current of Life.

This co-ed, experiential container

is a safe space to explore our body’s desires, our heart’s longings, and our soul’s creative fire.

In the DEEPER Dojo

we are unraveling the programming that has limited our personal and collective capacity for intimate collaboration. Together we are pressing gently into a new frequency of sovereign interdependence for ourselves and all our relations.

Every day we are listening deeper, dreaming more courageously, and speaking our truth more honestly and compassionately.
 
Every day we discover a more authentic relationship with our own YES and NO in the dialectical dance of Desire, Consent, and Boundaries.
 
We play together in the open field beyond right and wrong.

We are untethering our imaginations from the trauma and limitations of past experiences. We’re dreaming a new dream of togetherness, starting right where each of us is now:

Happily single?

Longing for dynamic connection with multiple others?

Deep into a committed partnership?

Open? Poly? Monogamous?

The language and syntax of sovereign interdependence is the same and we will keep emerging an even more beautiful dream together of what is possible.

Come play!

The whole Dojo is a radical experiment in Gift Economy

Come to receive. Come to give. Come to share in the medicine of open hearted connection.

Do you want to know the single error that almost cost us the greatest love either of us has ever known?

The mistake that we regret the most?
The one thing that we did that almost destroyed our relationship?
We tried to do it alone.
We didn’t get the support we needed until it was (almost) too late.
We are both coaches and we still made this mistake!

We all have unconscious cultural and familial programs running that envelop us in a sense of separation. We have shame admitting that we need support, specially in the realms of relationship and romantic intimacy.

The truth is, we were never meant to do this alone!

We humans thrive in community. Our relationships are healthiest when embedded in a network of authentic connections. But we’re programmed to feel alone in our struggles when it is our struggles that are so universal! We habitually hide the difficulties and put on a good face with friends. We habitually blame our partner for not meeting our needs and give away our power in the relationship by taking the position of the victim. We demand more of what we want and collapse when our strategies fail to produce the results we truly desire.

What else is possible?

The Dojo is an alchemical path that takes us DEEPER into a community of aligned souls devoted to defying the gravity of our fear and mistrust so we can soar into the Field of Intimate Possibilities!

How to know if DEEPER is for you:

You’re longing for more quality connection and authentic intimacy in your relationships

You’ve hit a crossroads in your partnership and know that something needs to shift for the better

You’re generally satisfied in your relationship/s but you know that there is greater depths in your communication, EQ and sexual intimacy that is possible!

You have been in isolation through Quarantine and feel it’s time to come out and reconnect with other Humans in a safe way

You feel like you’ve “tried everything” and you’re still stuck

You keep attracting relationships that seem to have the same unhealthy patterns and you are ready to transform that from within

You’re feeling sad and dissatisfied with the state of your love life

What is included in my purchase and membership?

  • The SHI(F)T Happens Training, which will orient you to the fundamentals of exquisite, No Bullshit Communication and support you in unraveling a conflict that exists in your life right now
  • The SHI(F)T Manual pdf playbook that will support your practice and integration
  • Twice monthly, 2 hour virtual gatherings in the DEEPER Dojo to connect, inquire, and practice Alchemical Intimacy as a community
  • Membership in the private Facebook Group, a curated space of connection and ongoing inquiry
  • Exclusive offers and deals, including first-dibbs on more intimate live and virtual retreats

JOIN THE DEEPER DOJO NOW FOR ONLY $144!

Your one time opt in amount gets you the 95min SHI(F)T Happens Video Training, 22 page workbook and one month subscription of the live DEEPER Dojo!!

**Purchasing and working through the SHI(F)T is a non-negotiable investment in being part of the Dojo. We hold a high value for sharing at least this level of familiarity and shared language regarding the principles we refine in our practice together.**

Your one time opt in amount gets you the 95min SHI(F)T Happens Video Training, 22 page workbook and one month subscription of the live DEEPER Dojo!!

**Purchasing and working through the SHI(F)T is a non-negotiable investment in being part of the Dojo. We hold a high value for sharing at least this level of familiarity and shared language regarding the principles we refine in our practice together.**

Event Details

This twice monthly virtual program builds infinitely upon the foundations of awareness you laid in the SHI(F)T Happens Webinar.

The three pillars of the DEEPER Dojo are Inquiry, Practice, and Community. Every session is an opportunity to explore and refine a new dimension of alchemical intimacy through self-inquiry, teaching & transmissions, attunements & meditations, individual, group & dyad skills practice, experiments in truth, and an ever-growing sense of community. This is a safe place to come and “do it badly” while you cultivate your living embodiment of Empathy and Deep Listening, Powerful Requests, Healthy Boundaries, Authentic Self-Expression, Radical Sovereignty, and SO MUCH MORE.

Alchemical Intimacy is possible in EVERY relationship in our lives and starts within. No matter your current intimate relationship status or particular desires, we welcome you into a community that celebrates diversity in every way.

The DEEPER Dojo is our stand for community and consistent practice being the foundation for healthy relationships and a more harmonious and abundant humanity.

This ongoing program is available only to those who have completed the SHI(F)T Happens digital training because we are building this community on a shared foundation of principles and practices. For this reason, you will be required to purchase the Training as part of your enrollment, and will receive the first month of DEEPER (two 90 min gatherings) for free.

You will be required to choose a subscription level within the range of our gift economy for the ongoing gatherings, and will be sent a reminder email before you’re billed to make sure you want to continue.

We are offering DEEPER as an experiment in Gift Economy. We give this container, these teachings, and this practice to you as a gift. Please feel free to subscribe at the $4.44 bottom of the scale until you find genuine joy and desire to contribute higher on the scale. We welcome and joyfully receive what it pleases you to give, and we also encourage you to give as generously as your heart permits in support of this community.

Subscribe

TESTIMONIALS

A note on Diversity

BBIPOC, and LGBTQIA+ identified folks are welcome and celebrated in the DEEPER Community. While we (Lillian and Joshua) are two white folks who speak from a mostly hertrosexual lens, we hold a high value for inclusivity, diversity and are always learning and open to your feedback to make it a safer place for all.

Your voice matters!

X